Sex before Marriage

[talsor]

i was with an Australian girl for 5 years , wanted to marry her , my mum did not agree cos she said how can i communicate with her ? since she doesn't speak any English and she was not a virgin , so i ended up marrying a Muslim virgin girl but i loved my ex partner more , go figure .

I hope your wife is not reading roj bash ,, the way you should post it is " I have a friend ...."

[Zhala]

HAHAHA!

[alan131210]

i was with an Australian girl for 5 years , wanted to marry her , my mum did not agree cos she said how can i communicate with her ? since she doesn't speak any English and she was not a virgin , so i ended up marrying a Muslim virgin girl but i loved my ex partner more , go figure .

I hope your wife is not reading roj bash ,, the way you should post it is " I have a friend ...."

i dont mind dear , love is not something we should be scared or secretive of , i have moved on i dont have feelings but what i meant was my feeling for my ex partner was stronger .

[PublicEnemy]

wellwell the same happens to a boy when a girl try to cheat on him. i dont want to defend boys and I know that some of them or maybe more doing such things but believe me the same happened to me when a girl cheated on me a and lie about everything she told me that was first time i fall in love and was the last so dont worry many young ppl faced the same disaster and hope u find happiness at last......thnx

[PublicEnemy]

hmm I never marry a girl who lost virginity by some1 else i cant trust her but if I make a girl lose her virginity i cant and never leave her alone this is how I think and hope tell me if im right or wrong ...... btw accept anything write as comment

[Kurdistano]

What do Kurdish guys feel about sex before marriage, would you marry a girl who was not a virgin or how would you feel if your girlfriend who was a virgin had sex with you would you still marry her?

Why wouldnt I if she was virgin before me? In fact it was me who deflowered her.

[max_b]

^^deflowered lol

[Kurdistano]

^^deflowered lol

thanks to shitty google translate. I tipped in German "Entjungfert" and got as translation deflowered.

[PublicEnemy]

oh dear,how old are you ? do you live alone in england ?

I on the behalf of the kurdish boys appologize to you innoncent lady , what that boy did to you was terreble and unacceptable .

I tell you , almost all of the people's first love becomes a tragedy, most of the people have a big pain in the heart from the first love,
this was your first love and it takes a while , but I tell you, you will feel stronger when you are over him .
remember whataever which doesnt kill you makes you stronger .

may be it is time for you to think about see another person and get over him.

Ya living in england alone, im 20. i live with 3students in a rented house, near to my uni. my whole family r in my homecountry. but when they know about this, maybe they will want me to leave.
Thanks for ur advice

Sorry man but not all ppls first love become tragedy it depends on them and for how they became partner and after that how they fall in love so there some couples that their first love was very successful and full of life and peace

[alan131210]

i was with an Australian girl for 5 years , wanted to marry her , my mum did not agree cos she said how can i communicate with her ? since she doesn't speak any English and she was not a virgin , so i ended up marrying a Muslim virgin girl but i loved my ex partner more , go figure .

I hope your wife is not reading roj bash ,, the way you should post it is " I have a friend ...."

She knows about my ex parter Heval she even met her (to ask her why we broke up) so I have nothing to hide

[brendar]

Well, i read all the comments in this thread. Very tragic!

It looks like iam the only one here whos not married neither have a girlfriend. Sad isnt it?

Anyway, if anyone is still single here, just pm me!

[kani]

I dont care who have had sex before marrige or not and if I were a guy I wouldn't care if my future wife was not virgin.
However I know many kurdish guys and girls here in Finland who have had sex before marrige and it's like nothig special and let's be honest many families have went over the thing that the "girl" should be virgin.

Myself I am single and I have been single now in many years and you know what? I like it that way. When I see my brother talking 24/7 with each others in phone and have NO FREEDOM becouse of her I can only say that I am lucky!

[brendar]

I dont care who have had sex before marrige or not and if I were a guy I wouldn't care if my future wife was not virgin.
However I know many kurdish guys and girls here in Finland who have had sex before marrige and it's like nothig special and let's be honest many families have went over the thing that the "girl" should be virgin.

Myself I am single and I have been single now in many years and you know what? I like it that way. When I see my brother talking 24/7 with each others in phone and have NO FREEDOM becouse of her I can only say that I am lucky!

Being single is much better.

[PublicEnemy]

ehh I hate to be single but its much better to dig a hole and fall into it hehehehehehehehehehehe

[crazyhorse]

well I am single too, but I don't want to be with a girl who slept with a lot of guys before, that's disgusting and that tells you that she doesn't have a lot of self-respect, or she is not to be trusted.

they don't have to be virgins, that's a very old way of thinking, that only happens in tribal communities
we live in a modern world now, the older generation might still be a little bit conservative, but the younger generations are not
you have to accept that fact, otherwise you'll have a very long lasting headache