Roj Bash Kurdistan

Posted: **Sat Nov 24, 2012 12:34 pm**

Hello,

Next year I will go to Kurdistan for a long time, I will stay in Sulaymaniyah, or maybe Duhok.
I have always been interrested in the middle east and I might want to live there.

But my question is: is there any chance I can marry a Kurdish woman?

Or is it impossible because I am not Kurdish myself?
( BTW I am Muslim )

Posted: **Sat Nov 24, 2012 1:20 pm**

Welcome to RBK,
if you want to live there, I dont think there be a problem for you to find your dream wife in Kurdistan.
where are you from orignially? what languages do you speak?

Posted: **Sat Nov 24, 2012 2:03 pm**

Thankyou for your reply,
Originally I am from Spain, Sevilla.
I speak Spanish and English and before I will go to Kurdistan I will
try to learn some Kurdish.
I dont know that much about Kurdish people but I do know that they can be
very strict in relationsships with non-kurdish people, especially when the
woman is Kurdish.
Is this true?

Posted: **Sat Nov 24, 2012 4:28 pm**

Then I hope there will be people that are more modern in the place where I will go.
So I do have a chance to find a woman there?
And in Kurdish culture how do most man find a woman these days?

Yes I converted to Islam.

Posted: **Sat Nov 24, 2012 7:17 pm**

MiguelSalazar wrote:Then I hope there will be people that are more modern in the place where I will go.
So I do have a chance to find a woman there?
And in Kurdish culture how do most man find a woman these days?

Yes I converted to Islam.

Most girls still marry relations. Kurds like to keep marriage within the extended family, also they like to know the man's family background.

Marriage is not so much arranged in less conservative parts of Kurdistan as suggested. Families with unmarried sons keep visiting until the girl picks one just to escape from family pressure :))

Her parents have to except you. I would not suggest that you try a Muslim marriage site.

If a girl's family have not managed to secure a good husband for their daughter then there is often a VERY good reason :ymdevil:

Posted: **Sat Nov 24, 2012 9:19 pm**

ohhh you are spanish?
Marry me? :))

However,I don't care about religions (I am atheist) and if you met kurdish girls here in finland it would not be such a problem to marry them.
But maybe back in kurdistan women still have to marry kurdish men which is somehow sad. I love mixing

Posted: **Sat Nov 24, 2012 11:38 pm**

I would only marry a Kurd to be honest. Others are free to do as they please.

Posted: **Sun Nov 25, 2012 12:08 am**

MiguelSalazar wrote:Hello,

Next year I will go to Kurdistan for a long time, I will stay in Sulaymaniyah, or maybe Duhok.
I have always been interrested in the middle east and I might want to live there.

But my question is: is there any chance I can marry a Kurdish woman?

Or is it impossible because I am not Kurdish myself?
( BTW I am Muslim )

If you are a friend of Kurds and show your interest in Kurdish people, you will have it easier to find a Kurdish girl and her family to accept you, and if you are muslim yourself it will be much easier.

I think you will have in Sulaymaniyah better chances to meet a Kurdish woman to marry than in Duhok.

Posted: **Sun Nov 25, 2012 12:21 am**

kani wrote:ohhh you are spanish?
Marry me?

However,I don't care about religions (I am atheist) and if you met kurdish girls here in finland it would not be such a problem to marry them.
But maybe back in kurdistan women still have to marry kurdish men which is somehow sad. I love mixing

Haha would be great :-*

So for you it won't be a problem to be in a relationship with somone that is not Kurdish, but what would you family
say about it?
You are right, people should be free to choose a partner, not only of their own culture.

As I can see there are very diffrent opinions about this subject

Posted: **Sun Nov 25, 2012 2:20 am**

MiguelSalazar wrote:Hello,

Next year I will go to Kurdistan for a long time, I will stay in Sulaymaniyah, or maybe Duhok.
I have always been interrested in the middle east and I might want to live there.

But my question is: is there any chance I can marry a Kurdish woman?

Or is it impossible because I am not Kurdish myself?
( BTW I am Muslim )

Good luck dear. 2 year i try to find true girl. but i cant find

Be care, its not a toy, its veryyyyy serious work ...
come to kurdistan, stay here for a long time, larn kurdish, leran culture and after that think a marryd,

Posted: **Sun Nov 25, 2012 11:55 am**

MiguelSalazar wrote:
kani wrote:ohhh you are spanish?
Marry me?

However,I don't care about religions (I am atheist) and if you met kurdish girls here in finland it would not be such a problem to marry them.
But maybe back in kurdistan women still have to marry kurdish men which is somehow sad. I love mixing

Haha would be great

So for you it won't be a problem to be in a relationship with somone that is not Kurdish, but what would you family
say about it?
You are right, people should be free to choose a partner, not only of their own culture.

As I can see there are very diffrent opinions about this subject

Well honey,for my family it won't be any problem either.I have had finnish boyfriends before and they did not have any problem with that.
and about this subject yes,it depends what kind of people they are- Are they conservative? religous? liberal?
it depends from person to person so it's hard to say

so now let's marry then :))

Posted: **Sun Nov 25, 2012 12:21 pm**

CONGRATULATIONS :ymhug:

HOW LOVELY A WEDDING

RBK NOW HAS A MARRIAGE TO CELEBRATE :ymparty:

Posted: **Sun Nov 25, 2012 2:54 pm**

kani wrote:
MiguelSalazar wrote:
kani wrote:ohhh you are spanish?
Marry me?

However,I don't care about religions (I am atheist) and if you met kurdish girls here in finland it would not be such a problem to marry them.
But maybe back in kurdistan women still have to marry kurdish men which is somehow sad. I love mixing

Haha would be great

So for you it won't be a problem to be in a relationship with somone that is not Kurdish, but what would you family
say about it?
You are right, people should be free to choose a partner, not only of their own culture.

As I can see there are very diffrent opinions about this subject

Well honey,for my family it won't be any problem either.I have had finnish boyfriends before and they did not have any problem with that.
and about this subject yes,it depends what kind of people they are- Are they conservative? religous? liberal?
it depends from person to person so it's hard to say

so now let's marry then

Very good my love, so we can marry without any problems, woow finding a beautiful girl went faster then I thought haha

But I think the Kurdish people in Europe are more liberal then the Kurdish people in Iraq.
Were you born in Finland?

Let's do it, where will I see you :))