Author: KabirKuhi » Fri May 23, 2014 6:53 pm
Anthea wrote:I am starting to think that there is something seriously wrong with both talsor and KabirKuhi
For some reason they seem totally unable to cope with the fact they I do not have a Kurdish boyfriend - do not particularly want one unless he is able to cook
And as for making fun of the fact that I was in a serious accident that left me in a wheelchair for 3 years
YOU TWO ARE REALLY SICK Fortunately I have recovered
My hope is that the pair of you should experience such terrible pain - though I doubt that there are many evil minded people as yourselves who would think it funny to laugh at someone would has had such a bad accident
Yes I have a black son

he is the first person to complain about the black only no-go areas housing estates in England and the increase in violent armed drug gangs
I also do not like the way they push drugs onto the young Kurds - but perhaps you both think that should be allowed
Like I said
YOU TWO ARE REALLY SICK 
No one cares, about your pain and accident(Why should anyone feel sorry for your self-wrought accident, you have done very little to earn sympathy from anyone, you just condescend and write rubbish). Stop using it as a crutch to feel entitled. What I said must've been true, otherwise you wouldn't have struck out so hard, you wouldn't be so bitter towards and obsessed with kurdish men in the kurdish community. Whatever it is, there is a story behind it.
I don't think this is a matter of kurds versus non-kurds when we talk about boyfriends. Any man, white, black, yellow, indian, kurdish, who would want to date you, must have sadomasochistic(they must enjoy self-inflicted pain) tendencies. To imagine having someone as unbearably vapid and as stupid, condescending and intrusive(british women are not known for their good-looks either) as you would be a nightmare. I'd rather go back in time and be interned with the shiah kurds in 1980s in abu ghraib, then date someone like that.
I also feel sorry for your black son, that you would tout and parade him like he was object, rather than a human. And somehow use him as some sort of doll or puppet that agrees with you, or as a prop, to defend your racism. This is the height of inverted racism. You don't even view him as human. More as an object or as a token. Otherwise you would wouldn't use him here as some sort of pin or badge of pride. You're so seriously warped and twisted in your inverted racism, you're not even aware of it. You view it as some sort of humanitarian issue. When it's really about you viewing them as lower people.
Piling wrote:@Talsor : you are funny : you use of the therm 'feminist' as an American redneck shout 'communists !' each time he sees a liberal

Very old school and absolutely unproductive concerning a debate.
Moreover it is very PKK manner to distort all general and ideologic argument in personal investigation like 'if you think that it is because in your life etc and etc." ; in fact you are more influenced by our hevals than you think.
The funniest is that all in yourself and your personal charges perspire the guy who could had a bad adventure with a Western woman and get out of that story featherless and full of bitterness against the female gender in general (but more the Caucasian Anglo-Saxon Feminist who could have chopped your balls).
About SadKurdishLovers as Anthea said, in a forum everything and everyone are virtual. You might not be what you told, pretend to be the one you are not, etc., as all people there. If someone comes and tells ' I have that practical problem' then the only thing to do is to find a solution (or try) or to say nothing if that's not interest you. Judges and police are making their own investigations in such cases and have to doubt and verify all testimonies. But we are not in that case.
The issue of that topic is 'how to do in a case complicated and jumbled as a plate of spaghetti' ?
Well at this step, she can only hope that he will make a child to another woman, cheat her, married her and discovered she is a psycho ready to emasculate him
I highly doubt it. The type that is most likely to date any immigrant, is usually the type who likes "ghetto" "rapper" style men, mostly working class or have lived around immigrants(From what I've seen anyway) . Not the feminist types(who usually are either rich or middle-class) or intellectual leftist types. Also Anglo-saxon women are more likely to date african/carribean or europeans from what I've seen. People from muslim ethnicities have a bad rep because of imagery around womens rights in islamic societies(although this was probably a bit different before 9/11). They have no trouble partying in turkey with clubber males and players though. Talsor doesn't seem to be the type of kurds and middle-easterners who are player/socialite types that go after european women. I only know 2 kurds who seriously dated and married their european spouses, and they're both middle-aged(45 and 52). The rest are young players/socialites who date and have short-term relationships. So what you say likely doesn't check out. Western women have a bad rep in the middle-east and middle-eastern community for being fickle and unreliable, and likely to change their mind about relationships. That's why you see less marriages between the communities, than say between blacks and europeans f.ex.