etiquette in dating a Kurdish girl

[bleu ciel]

how do you see that, Blue - is korean culture more close to kurdish or european? coz i think (i dont know, but think) korean... but at the other hand... Kurdistan is more likely european in some acpects... i really dont know.
but for me is not a problem, coz i assimilated myself . i even use to say "hello" in kurdish to people who are not kurdish - without thinking about it, just as a habit
but suprisingly, i feel all what you wrote toward england where i am - this country is the same european as the one i used to live all my life, but still more foreign for me than Kurdistan, which is in Middle East and which i never seen (57 days left to my trip !!!!!!!!!!! ). I know that i am able to be here (on my own without any family member) only because i am with my people - with my kurdish family. any time i go for shopping i say "hello" to at least one of my brothers, usually to few. i am 3 years here. before i was living in one town (smaller than this one) for more than 30 years - i say "hello" to people on the street maybe one time every 3-4 months. the difference is very big.

Dear Kulka.
I really wonder how you fall in love with Kurdistan that much? My sister used to be so into Poland, Poland is still her favorite country in the world except korea.. when I asked the reason, she said, I love the country without any special reason. So we visited there during our Europe tour. she really loved it. Some people can love truly other countries except thier own countries.. but I never ever met a person who is really truly with all heart falling in love with other country..So to me, you are just "wonder" and "amazing". and bravo..
I am living in korea, korea is very various, so I can't define with one word.. Personally I grew up very very small town in far away from city, so my idea, my lifestyle is more close to old people which is likely to kurdish. But I think it is not right if kurdish father don't let his daughter get married to someone she loves whoever he is from.. I think she can decide and choose her future by her own.
I appreciate this forum a lot..
and kulka, Welcome back

[Kulka]

Thank you Dear Friend,

yes i agree that women, girls should have equal rights as men. (now, when this funny guy Mikee is reading that, he is getting mad - chony, mikee, did you find your infant wife? i advice you to buy a dog, coz you dont need a wife in fact, you need an obidient creature, so leave humans alone and buy dog or hamster).
And i think in Kurdistan its not that much bad about it. maybe its not perfect at the moment, but this country is getting better about everything day by day. we cant forget that for so many years it was destroying by Arabs, Ba'ath regime and only few years till now its building up - and what was achieve till now is really good score.

yes, i also never seen someone with that kind of love and i dont know how its works, maybe the reason is my quite difficult personal situation, in which this love is my only way out, rescue, sense of life - i dont know. i feel happy with that and i dont need to wonder why? and how?
i know a person, in internet, polish one, who is in love with Japan, she is writting the blog about Japan, really interesting articles and pics, i like to read it, coz i canunderstand what she can feel.

[catspy]

hello there..

am a kurdish girl , and i was reading about that culture thing ...
my boyfriend is 30 years old korean and am 15 now! ..i like him so much and he tells me the same , he asked for marrige
i know that it wont be easy at all!.. with my family and his family cuz there are many diffrence btween us
we have a member in the family who got married with a japaniese man , as i heard about her she's so happy with him but as i know japaniese are easier than korean ..
in anyways kurdish girls are not very hard to get especailly if they were living outside kurdistan , open -minded kurdish girl can date a non-kurd man but the problem is with the family and culture , i see that all the asian cultures has the same problem ..

good luck for every one!

[talsor]

hello there..

am a kurdish girl , and i was reading about that culture thing ...
my boyfriend is 30 years old korean and am 15 now! ..i like him so much and he tells me the same , he asked for marrige
i know that it wont be easy at all!.. with my family and his family cuz there are many diffrence btween us
we have a member in the family who got married with a japaniese man , as i heard about her she's so happy with him but as i know japaniese are easier than korean ..
in anyways kurdish girls are not very hard to get especailly if they were living outside kurdistan , open -minded kurdish girl can date a non-kurd man but the problem is with the family and culture , i see that all the asian cultures has the same problem ..

good luck for every one!

Your boyfriend is petafile and by westren laws it is considered a statutory rape . You should get some psychiatric help and he should be in jail .

[Kurdistano]

hello there..

am a kurdish girl , and i was reading about that culture thing ...
my boyfriend is 30 years old korean and am 15 now! ..i like him so much and he tells me the same , he asked for marrige
i know that it wont be easy at all!.. with my family and his family cuz there are many diffrence btween us
we have a member in the family who got married with a japaniese man , as i heard about her she's so happy with him but as i know japaniese are easier than korean ..
in anyways kurdish girls are not very hard to get especailly if they were living outside kurdistan , open -minded kurdish girl can date a non-kurd man but the problem is with the family and culture , i see that all the asian cultures has the same problem ..

good luck for every one!

How ill-mannered have Kurdish Girls become? Especially Kurdish Girls from South Kurdistan. You have heard how easy it is to get a Kurdish Girl, were in your dreams? (Sounds like a troll to me) Just some years ago it was seen very bad when Kurds married outside their ethnicities to such different ethnic Groups. I have no problems with that at all If People in the similar age love each other. But a 30 year old man while you are 15? If you arent ill mannered how did you meet him? Either you are a troll, saying that you are a Kurdish Girl (what I believe, why else should you as a Kurd come to a political Forum and ask about such a nonsense) or you are really an extremely ill-mannered Girl. I dont even want to imagine what else you have done. Your poor parents.

[Kulka]

are you really kurdish girl? and 15 years old in addition? if yes, so please dont bring shame to all kurdish girls writing something like that in public.

[catspy]

what if he was 30 years old?? just because he is not kurdish u put hard rules?!! if he was kurdish so it's ok! right?!
stop being single-minded we are in 21c when you people will become modern?
my bf is so behavied he never said any tihng bad to me our did any thing bad ..
NO ONE IS BETTER THAN THE OTHER!
we are all human beings created by god
and non of the riligion said you can't marry a man whoes not from the same country as you!
poeple should take other by thier way of acting not how they were before centuries!
even the same couples from the same countries even families have problems!!!
the real problem is in us not on thoes things ...

[catspy]

LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO THINK IN THAT WAY...
MY MSG TO ALL THOES WHO LIKE OTHER GIRLS GO FOR IT!!! LOVE IS LOVE

[talsor]

what if he was 30 years old?? just because he is not kurdish u put hard rules?!! if he was kurdish so it's ok! right?!
stop being single-minded we are in 21c when you people will become modern?
my bf is so behavied he never said any tihng bad to me our did any thing bad ..
NO ONE IS BETTER THAN THE OTHER!
we are all human beings created by god
and non of the riligion said you can't marry a man whoes not from the same country as you!
poeple should take other by thier way of acting not how they were before centuries!
even the same couples from the same countries even families have problems!!!
the real problem is in us not on thoes things ...

Your boy is a pedophile and you are a rape victim with Stockholm syndrome . Talk to your doctor or your mom or your dad or any adult about this and I promise you he will end up in Jail and you will end up in a hospital .

[talsor]

LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO THINK IN THAT WAY...
MY MSG TO ALL THOES WHO LIKE OTHER GIRLS GO FOR IT!!! LOVE IS LOVE

You are just a kid and one day you will look back and understand how are being molested and have nightmare about it .

[catspy]

many of my friend who are adults! know about him ..nth wrong single- minded people
am not here to talk about this thing am here to sapport the malaysian boy!

[talsor]

many of my friend who are adults! know about him ..nth wrong single- minded people
am not here to talk about this thing am here to sapport the malaysian boy!

we are just trying to help you recognize that you are a statutory rape victim and seek some professional help .

[Kurdistano]

what if he was 30 years old?? just because he is not kurdish u put hard rules?!! if he was kurdish so it's ok! right?!
stop being single-minded we are in 21c when you people will become modern?
...

If you were my daughter, you would see my Kurdish modernity. ill-bred Girl. Show me a society where a marriage or partnership between a 15 and 30 year old is accepted. This has nothing to do with modernity. If you want to marry a Japanese than do it with someone in your age.

[Kulka]

We only want to tell you that at the age of 15 you should sit in a classroom and keep books in your hands. On the one hand i wish you - when you will have 15 years old doughter that she will date with 30 years old deviant. And it has nothing to do with nationality or religion.Nor with modernity.

[catspy]

My avarge at school is 96.3 he always sapporting me and he's so good age is just a number if i would take a 15 years ild boy so he is probabbly stupied he will only care about his wii game or playstation even thow he's 30 he has a really cute personality and he looks much younger in shape and way of acting not like many other men around