Author: azade_ » Sun Sep 16, 2007 2:10 pm
No Vladimir, I became a muslim when I was apart from my husband, so he has had nothing to do with it. He has, many times, been reluctant towards teaching me about islam and has eg. asked me not to fast this ramadan. He also does not want me to wear hijab so in fact I'm the practicing party in our relationship. When we lived together before he was drafted to the turkish army, he was not practicing his religion as well and it was I who encouraged him to do it sometimes, even though I was not a muslim myself at the time.
Now I know that some women of other cultures convert when they marry a muslim but that's blasphemic, if somene doesn't have the right iman, they are not muslim. It's really simple. Muslim men can marry women of the book, and besides no one should convert unless they have the right intention in their heart and believes in the six articles of faith. That's what islam says so the whole practice of converting without a genuine iman is actually bidah.
just because i don't care doesn't mean i don't understand