SORRY but I have to ask "Are you married?" and if so "Are you the same as the Muslim husband in 1, 2, 3 or 4?"
I had a Kurdish friend with a beautiful little wife, who he NEVER allowed out of his sight. He asked me to help her with her English, and I rightly pointed out that his lovely wife would need to speak with other English people not just me. No point her learning English properly if the ONLY English person she would ever speak with is me
I mentioned FREEDOM and he said:
"My wife is free to do what she wants in the home" AND "Once a week, I even allow my wife to sit at the same table as my father."

